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How to Teach Perspective-Taking to ChildrenHow to Teach Perspective-Taking to ChildrenWhen I was a child, I had a really hard time choosing between chocolate and vanilla ice cream. It wasn’t that I couldn’t decide which one I liked more because I knew that I loved chocolate the best. The problem was that I didn’t want to hurt vanilla’s feelings by choosing chocolate. No joke, I was ridiculously sensitive to the perspective of others as a child. In fact, I was so sensitive to it that I would put the perspective of an inanimate object above my own desires. You can imagine my relief when I discovered swirl ice cream! Now I would consider my perspective-taking abilities as a child as WAY too over the top. But what about those people who are not able to take another person’s perspective at all? They have the opposite problem of little Carrie. What is Perspective-Taking?Perspective-taking refers to a person’s ability to consider a situation from a different point of view. It requires you to put yourself in the other person’s position and imagine what you would feel, think, or do if you were in that situation. When you are able to imagine a situation from someone else’s perspective, you can gain a better understanding of someone else’s motives or change your own behavior so you don’t offend someone. What Happens if you have Perspective-Taking Problems?Do you have any acquaintances that you would describe as “inconsiderate”? How about “self-centered”? I’m willing to bet that you think of those people like that because they are having trouble with perspective-taking. As adults, we must consider other people’s perspectives before we act or speak. When we don’t consider how our actions will make others feel, we end up seeming rude, inconsiderate, and self-centered. As someone who is often too sensitive to the needs of others, I have very little tolerance for those who don’t seem able to see things from any point of view aside from their own. They end up doing only what is in their own best interest and disregard what is best for the group or anyone else they are with. When our children have trouble with perspective-taking, they may have difficulty making friends or maintaining those friendships once they are made. Can you Teach Perspective-Taking to a Child?Fortunately, it is very possible to teach a child to take the perspective of others. I am going to offer some suggested activities that can be done in speech therapy or at home to improve a child’s ability to take another’s perspective. Here are the skills and activities broken down by age: Preschoolers and Perspective-TakingTypical Skills: Have you ever seen 2 babies in a room and when one starts crying, the other starts crying too? That’s because babies don’t know that someone else’s discomfort is not their own. They don’t have the ability to take the perspective of someone else. We call this theory of mind (meaning that the child understands that other people have other perspectives than their own). Babies don’t have theory of mind yet. Around 2-3 years of age, children start to gain an understanding that each person is experiencing different things. During the preschool years, we should see a child start to show concern for others who are upset. They may show concern for someone who is crying or try to do something to help that person. However, at this stage, children still often confuse their own perspective with others. A preschooler may think that since she likes ice cream, everyone likes ice cream. This may lead to actions like giving someone who is crying a favorite toy because the child knows that would cheer him up if he had it himself. Activities: Here are some ideas of what you can do with preschoolers who are not yet showing signs of understanding that other people have different perspectives and feelings than we do:
Perspective-Taking in Grades K-2Typical Skills: During these years, the child’s perspective-taking skills should continue to grow. The child should develop the ability to guess what people are thinking or feeling based on their behaviors and understand their motivation for certain behaviors. Keep in mind that this is still happening at a very simplistic level. For example, if the child you’re working with watches another child hit his teacher, the K-2nd grader should be able to guess that the child hit his teacher because he was mad. He probably wouldn’t be able to tell you though that the other child was frustrated because the task that the teacher asked him to do was too difficult. Activities:
Perspective-Taking in Grades 3-5Typical Skills: During these grades, children begin to develop the understanding that everyone sees situations from a different perspective and that people may therefore misinterpret what’s going on. For example, the child will understand if you explain to him that when he walked up to his friend and hit him on the back, he meant it as a greeting but his friend interpreted it as anger. Children in these grades also begin to understand that a person may be hiding his/her true feelings. For example, they would begin to understand that if a child said “I’m okay” but still had tears in her eyes, she may not really be ok but she just wants others to think she is. Activities:
Perspective-Taking in Grades 6-8Typical Skills: At this point, children continue to fine-tune their ability to take the perspective of others and understand someone else’s thoughts, feelings, and motives. They continue to develop the skills we’ve mentioned previously but in more complex ways. These children are also beginning to understand that people often have multiple motives for their behavior and sometimes those motives are conflicting. For example, the child may understand that a teenager may be tempted to smoke because it will make him look cooler (peer pressure) but that he may be reluctant to do so because it is unhealthy and gross. Activities:
Perspective-Taking in Grades 9-12 (High School)Typical Skills: At this point, these young adults begin to understand that a person’s culture and environment impact their personality, behavior, and perspectives. They begin to see how we are all a product of our environment and that past events and present circumstances all affect how we see the world. For example, young adults may begin to see that a person who has always been discriminated against is more likely to assume he’s being discriminated against than someone who has never known discrimination. These young adults are also beginning to understand that people may not always be fully aware of why they act the way they do. They may be acting a certain way because they were brought up that way or they are repressing some feelings that they don’t want to deal with. Activities:
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This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. What term describes the inability to take another person's point of view?Egocentrism refers to someone's inability to understand that another person's view or opinion may be different than their own. 1 It represents a cognitive bias, in that someone would assume that others share the same perspective as they do, unable to imagine that other people would have a perception of their own.
What is it called when a child is not able to take the perspective of others?Egocentrism: Egocentrism in early childhood refers to the tendency of young children not to be able to take the perspective of others, and instead the child thinks that everyone sees, thinks, and feels just as they do.
What does egocentric mean in child development?Topic Overview. Egocentric thinking is the normal tendency for a young child to see everything that happens as it relates to him- or herself. This is not selfishness. Young children are unable to understand different points of view.
Is when a child is unable to distinguish between his own perspective and that of another person?Egocentrism is the inability to distinguish between one's own perspective and someone else's perspective. Young Children confuse the appearance of something with reality.
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